Saturday, March 13, 2010

Buhay Buhangin (Sn 37)

26 comments:

  1. hehehe, sometimes we expect too much from a child, but sometimes, we have to do our share, also.

    Kids learn by repeating things to them, so show an example repeating some good words, and good deeds, and yes patient sa pagtuturo lalo na sa house.

    For me, ang learning or development ng bata di dapat inaasa sa teacher sa school. Primarily, it should be in the home.

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  2. Naisip kong baka hindi rin kasi ganu'n katalino ang anak ng Aleng ito. U
    Pero, yes, nakuha ko po ang nais niyong iparating sa komiks na ito.

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  3. hahaha ang galing, parang ako yata yun nasa likod ng teacher at ale, di makuntento sa score ng anak mali lang ng isa eh nagagalit na LOL

    sards/missy

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  4. Lawstude, hehe, yan dapat ang mga "come back" sa mga makukulit na mother.

    Kenjie, true, a child's development and learning process should not be confined in school alone, but at home as well. Pero hindi dapat "stage parents" ang mga magulang. : )

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  5. RJ, meron kasing magulang na gusto "top" palagi ang anak. Gagawin ang lahat para lang makamit yun. I'm not sure kung sa kapakanan ng anak or self realization ang motibo.

    Sardz, may drawback din kung lalagyan ng "pressure" ang bata sa ganyang murang idad.

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  6. Parents failed to recognize the physical and mental stress their children are experiencing each school years. Mula sa araw-araw na mabigat na dalahing school bags at sa mga assignments at skul projects na kinakaharap sa iskwela and the high expectations the parents awaiting from them for each periodical results.

    Parang di dumaan sa pag-aaral ang mga magulang o talagang hindi nga nakapag-aral.

    Salamat sa hatid mong BB, ito'y sumasalamin sa bawa't magulang na may pinag-aaral na anak sa kasalukuyang panahon.

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  7. hiyay! napahiya si mommy. hehe. nice one.

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  8. kaya mahirap magwork pareho ang parents eh dapat talaga the mom stays at home.

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  9. Pope, true, I got a feeling some parents are too "competitive". I don't know if what they are doing is for the good of their children or for their own gratification.

    R-yo, hehe. this really happened but what took place was the opposite. The teacher kept her peace.

    eRLyN, karamihan sa "mommy" dito don't work and just concentrate on their children's schooling. Mangilan-ngilan din ang "stage mom".

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  10. may kilala akong magulang na ganyan.... sobrang nagagalit sya kapag ung anak nya nagkakamistake sa schoolworks... 2/10 pinarurusahan na nya agad ung bata... the kid's only 6 years old.. every afternoon, instead of bein outside playing with kids of her age, nakakulong sya sa bahay pilit na pinagaaral ng nanay nya... ganun din kapag weekends. the only time she's out eh 30 mins every sunday... nakakaawa ung bata lalo kapag naririnig ko na pinagagalitan at sinasaktan ng nanay nya dahil hindi makuha agad ung tinuturo nya...

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  11. Haha, nakakatuwa naman ang sagot ni teacher.

    Naalala ko yung friend ko dun sa isang illustration, yung gusto eh perfect. Nung nasa college pa kame, napansin namin na malungkot sya eh sya na nga ang nagtop sa exams. Kase daw hindi masaya ang tatay nya pag may isa or dalawang mali. Pressure. =)

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  12. YanaH, ano ba yan? Ibang klaseng magulang naman yan. Siguro pagsabihan mo ang bata okay lang, pero saktan mo dahil hinde makuha ang pagtuturo ay hinde at tama. Yung magulang nung siya ang nag-aaral, "topnotcher" ba palagi?

    Ms.Jo, ganyan ang tatay namin sa eldest namin. Gusto mana sa kanyang "top-of-his-class" palagi. Buti nalang hinde sya ganyan sa akin. "Delayed" kasi ang turing nya sa akin. >: D

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  13. hahaha... lagot. daming ganung parents kasi they wanted their children to be exactly like them. not looking at the limitations of their children.

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  14. I just want to be a "cool" mom, as long as my kids are happy & show good citizenship at home & at school ~~ kuntento na kami. Let your children grow & bloom naturally. It's like the bow and arrow: pag maganda ang tira mo and pinakawalan mo yung arrow, malamang bullseye! Pag magaling talaga, magaling!

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  15. donG, all parents wants their children to succeed in life. That's the reason why some are strict. My father is one example. Pero huwag naman sanang "extreme" ang decipline.

    Pam, agree all the way. Kahit anong turo mo sa bata, pag hinde nya "forte", walang mangyayari. Kaya nga merong tinatawag na "multiple inteligence". A kid may not do good academically, but still manage to be successful because his genius lies in other fields.

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  16. that's why in other countries there is no academic competetion ( 1st honor, etc..) at elementary and even high school levels. It is just so premature to conclude that the student is academically excellent when their minds are still young and in the process of development. Sometimes such awards simply serves the ego more than anything.

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  17. whew.. taas talaga ng expectations ng mga matatanda sa mga bata, di ba nila naisip na ganyan din naman sila noong unang panahon? hehehe "unang panahon" - very oldies..

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  18. oo nga nman!cheating na yun! lol!!

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  19. bw, I think you're right. Academic awards given to children as young as kindergarten only serves the parents. I doubt if it motivates the child.

    SLY, noong unang panahon, "strict" ang parents. Naranasan ko yan kaya ayaw kong ganyan din ang maranasan ng anak ko.

    Theo, hehe, ayos ba ang "come back" ni teacher?

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  20. I keep telling my nieces, dapat hindi lang kayo mataas sa IQ. Dapat mataas din ang EQ n'yo.

    (Sort of looking the glass half empty than half full): I actually pity the kids nowadays. Bata pa lang sila nag-aaral na. Biro mo, as young as 4 years old, nasa school na. Three years for pre-elem, six years for elem, four for secondary and then another four or five in college. That's a total of 17 years na pag-aaral! At kung magdodoktor pa ang bata...oh dear!

    I hope this early education exercise will yield better citizenry in the future.

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  21. there's this time mag edition that had several studies showing that the best thing to do to kids when they are kids is to let them play. that it's what makes them better adults.

    the things they learn at age 3 onwards (before they are seven) are best learned when they are seven.

    i think a lot of parents put a lot of unnecessary pressure on kids that they lose the best things they should have when they are kids - learning how to play with their peers.

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  22. Nebz, 3yrs old ng pinasok namin si Bea sa nursery. But our purpose is not for her to "learn" but to have enter-action with kids her age. So far so good. She loves school because of play at hinde naman nahuhuli ang grades nya. But we don't force her to study if she doesn't want to.

    atticus, sinabi mo pa. A few of my daughter's classmate are really serious (kinder yan ha) because of the pressure put on them by their parents. Some even don't want to play. Kuntento na sa naka-upo na lang at baka mapunta sa iba ang "Most Behave" award. : (

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  23. Hay naku, guilty, nag-iinit ulo ko kapag madami mali sa exams ng anak ko...

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  24. lol ako yata ung bata na nasa likod lol lol lol kawawa naman lol

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  25. sheng, kahit sinong magulang nag-aalala pag hinde nag-aaral ang anak. Okay lang pagalitan siguro, huwag lang ipagdiinan ang "perfect".

    dacz, kaya huwag mong gayahin pag nagka-anak ka na. Dahan-dahan lang. Kung magaling ang bata, lalabas at lalabas ang talento nyan.

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